Lesbians often get missed out in discussions on safe sex. Lesbians can (and do) have sex in a variety of different ways; there are no rights or wrongs. What is important is that you are aware of the ways in which infections can be spread and that you take this into account when partaking in sexual acts with other women. Infections can be spread through bodily fluids such as blood or vaginal secretions coming into contact with open wounds or body parts with close contact to blood, such as the vagina or the mouth.
Oral SexThis is relatively safe, but there are risks from gonorrhoea, thrush and if either you or your partner have cuts in you mouth, HIV infection. You can use a dental dam with a water-based lubricant such as KY jelly underneath, alternatively a spermicidal-free condom cut into a square for protection of the above STIs.
MasturbationOn your own or with a partner this is a fun and safe way to have an orgasm. The only thing to rememheader]ber is if you touch someone else before or after, wash your hands or use a latex glove.
Vaginal/Anal PenetrationFingers and Fists
Having short nails and clean jewellery free hands can reduce the risks of contracting STIs. However, latex gloves are the best protection. If you have cuts on your hands you will need to cover them up with a waterproof plaster or gloves to reduce the risks of HIV infection.
Dildos and Vibrators
Make sure it is cleaned between use on you or your partner or be even safer and use a condom.
Tribadism (Rubbing genitals together)There are high risks of STIs from this because of the direct contact, but as yet no one has invented protection for this activity, short of knowing that you and your partner are STI free.